LOSS OF A FRIEND

for those of you who check the blog and may not have heard yet, my exboyfriend, Vance (who I dated for 9 years) died Sunday in a dirt bike accident. If he had ever had a choice of how he would have wanted to leave this life, it would have been on his bike. He has been estranged from his family for about the last 10 years so his mom is really having a hard time. I have been in close contact with her, although we weren't together the last 3 years, I guess I am the one with the most information to offer. I know he and I had some pretty rough times there at the end of our relationship, but all I ever wanted was for him to find happiness, and didn't think I was the one who could give it to him. Please keep his family in your prayers as they try to deal with this loss and their grief. Not sure when services will be held, but he wouldn't have wanted a bunch of people standing around staring at him anyways! :)